The betrothed couple used two candles to light one, and that one candle, in turn, was used to light the first of the smaller candles distributed to all of the guests so that the flame was passed from person to person in a circle around the couple. In the midst of this they said, "I do." And as Julie and Jerry danced slowly in the center of a circle of candle-lit smiles, Julie's parents watched from their seats, their arms hooked together. It was their love, after all, Julie said, that got this whole thing started. Since her father was diagnosed with Alzheimer's, Julie has become more and more

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